Our gender differences create false impressions of our partners. Dr. Pat Allen really got me to see the fact that men and women are not like dogs and cats, but rather more like turtles and giraffes. This huge gender difference between men and women. How we feel, behave and perceive differently, creates distrust and a false feeling of incompatibility. Without knowing the basic differences between a man’s and a woman’s behaviors, we are bound to keep creating misunderstandings; not because men and women don’t fit, but because of the “simple” lack of knowledge about different gender behavior.